Is Oral Sex A Great Compensation Prize For A Small Penis?

Okay, so your Mr. Wonderful has a small penis; nothing that you can do about that right? Wrong! Most men are obsessed with the size of their penis. Their every waking moment is spent looking at the guy next to them while in the public washroom, or in the gym’s bathroom, while they change after a long workout.

Your man, of course, drives you nuts while in bed. “Do you like it baby? Am I the biggest and best you have ever had? Am I hurting you?” Oh brother! Now of course you do not wish to hurt his feelings because you care, right? And most importantly you know that size does not matter; but let’s not tell them that, and instead use this to your advantage.

So this is what you do! Your job is to skillfully, without hurting your “Mr. Wonderful” emotionally, stroke his ego, but you should also introduce the other sexual act that research says most pleases us women. You mention, of course, that although you do find his size “okay” and he means a lot to you, you would however appreciate a little extra loving.

You really should say to him, “Honey you know that size does not matter and I love you for who you are, not your penis size.” Psychology and the art of persuasion should be your two most common manipulative tools that you use to get what you want. See how fast he gets on his knees or goes downtown in order to please you.

“So Sandy, are you suggesting that I should play mind games with Donovan in order for him to give me that extra loving down there?” my girlfriend Donna asked me once. “Why can’t I just ask him to do it if he is not?” she added.

“No, I am not saying that you should try to trick him or anything,” I answered sheepishly. “All I am saying is that we all know how sensitive a lot of men are about the subject of oral sex (especially our Caribbean men. There is nothing wrong with you as a mature and understanding woman coaxing them along the way, in order for them to do what you want,” I added.

“Not telling him that he is inadequate will make him feel a little bit inadequate and if he wants to keep you, he will do what you want instinctively,” I also added.

If he does care about you, and deep down he knows that his penis is smaller than average, he will try to compensate in so many other ways. Either by bringing you flowers more often, helping around the house and with the kids on a regular basis, or using his tongue to please you.

And don’t discourage him either. He should always be trying to please you; that is his job. So let him practice his extracurricular exercises with his tongue or hands. What he does not know – which of course is that size does not matter – will not hurt him, but will only enhance your pleasure and of course your relationship. By any means necessary my friends!

Sandy Daley is a columnist, radio and television personality and actress. She is also the author of “Whose Vagina Is It, Really?” She can be contacted at: Website: www.sandydaley.com, Facebook: womanincontrol@facebook.com, Twitter: twitter.com/whosevaginaisit and/or Email:thesinglegirlspot@gmail.com.